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What holidays mean to me *

As you may know, I’m not really a traveler in the sense that I’m not planning to up sticks and travel around Asia for the foreseeable future. I admire those that do lead a travelling lifestyle and some of my favourite blogs are written by women who do just that. But personally, I don’t think that would work for me for a variety of reasons.

Holidays on the other hand, I am all down for. There’s nothing I love more than a week or a long weekend away from the norm, spending time away from work, away from my laptop 24/7 and just, being. Soaking up the atmosphere of wherever you are, enjoying the company you’re in and relaxing. Sometimes for the first time in months!

Whilst more recently I’ve only been on UK holidays such as The Lake District, Norfolk Broads and Snowdonia National Park, I have had my fair share of holidays abroad as well. I like to think I’ve been on a wide selection of trips from the fun of Disneyland, the heat of the Canary Islands, the slow pace of the Norfolk Broads and the snowy mountains of the French Alps. I absolutely love looking back over the holidays I’ve been on and thinking about what they mean to me. Because for me, memories are much more important than any physical possession I could possibly have.

And memories and moments are really what makes holidays so special to me. Of course you don’t need fancy hotels, blue sea and sand amongst your toes in order to make lovely memories – that can certainly be done from the comfort of your own home if the circumstances are right – but being away – anywhere – makes me look at the bigger picture. It makes me realise that really, spending time with people you love is the most important thing in life. When you’re cooped up, working, doing the chores and going about your daily life at home, it’s easy to forget that.

I also like to experience something and then leave. That might contribute to why I’ve never really felt the need to travel extensively but deep down, I like the feeling of experiencing something new and then leaving it behind with only photos and your own memories to hold of it. That might sound like a weird approach to holidays and often, leaving a holiday that I’m enjoying makes me a bit tearful. But to me, that means it was special. It means I enjoyed it and it means that I’ll probably remember it forever.

Whilst now I often go on holiday with my boyfriend, I’ve been on a fair few holidays abroad with my parents when I was in my teens. Spain and Majorca but our favourite destination was always the Canary Islands. Having been to Gran Caneria twice and Lanzarote and Tenerife once each I can safely say the Canaries were our destination of choice. They’re all so beautiful, with gorgeous hotels, reasonably priced and a lovely breeze all year round which can be a life saver in the dead of summer.

I often think back at my family holidays to the Canary Islands with my parents. Being an only child, they were all I had for holidays growing up. But that didn’t make them any less fun. We always tended to meet people in the hotel we stayed at and I always, always made friends abroad – one of which I still have on Facebook today! I know these are memories I’ll treasure forever; playing card games in the bar area, spending all day by the pool, taking part in the hotel’s activities and meeting fleeting friends along the way. I think the Canary Islands will always hold a special place in my heart for this very reason.

The Canary Islands are a gorgeous holiday destination for groups of friends, couples and families. There’s something for everyone. To the Canary Islands with Holiday Gems – find your perfect Canary Island holiday!

Have you ever been to the Canary Islands? Which one? What’s your favourite holiday destination? Are you a keen traveler or a short-term holiday maker like myself? Let me know!

* This post is sponsored by Holiday Gems


Jenny in Neverland

Twenty-something lifestyle blogger from Essex. Book lover, Slytherin, organisational wizard and enjoys Motorsport, Disney and Yoga.


  1. perrinevautour says:

    I like both 🙂 just going to the south of England to spend a few days with my family or going on a holiday abroad make me equally happy. I also love staying at home sometimes! ^^


    1. Same! I love different types of holiday for sure (: xxx

  2. I love seeing what holidays mean to different people. I’m kind of half way between the holiday girl and the traveller. I have some great memories of childhood travels. I’m an only child too and my parents split when I was quite young. The result of that was my mum went somewhere with her boyfriend then I got to pick where we went together. New York at 11 was amazing 😂 x


    1. Wow! That’s amazing and what a good choice too! xxx

  3. I love holidays too, I’m definitely not a typical ‘traveller’ because I like pretty expensive holidays and haven’t got enough money to do that long term haha! My favourite holiday destinations are Disney World Florida, New York and Mexico, but there are hundreds of other places on my list!- x

    1. I think Florida and Mexico would be far too hot for me! New York looks lovely though xxx

  4. This is such a great post Jenny! 💖 I also wrote a post on Gran Canaria which I posted today so I totally share your love of the island. Playing card games in the sunshine or in the bar is definitely one of my fave things to do on a relaxing beach holiday 😎🏖. Reading this just makes me wanna go on holiday again even more! Fab post 😘 xx

    Bexa |

    1. I’d love to go on a Gran Canaria Holiday now! Literally craving it haha xxx

  5. hebahpervaiz says:

    Visiting the Canary Islands would be an absolute dream for me! I loved reading this post – I completely agree, making memories is the best part of any holiday. x

    1. It’s a gorgeous place, would highly recommend! Xxx

  6. Getting away for a weekend or a week can completely transform your outlook and refresh how you feel! I was away this weekend at our beach house and I feel much happier and more content going into the week. I think it also does wonders for productivity! Thank you for sharing!

    Kaitlin ||

    1. I totally agree – I often spend a week or a few days at my boyfriend’s parents house in the country and even a tiny little getaway like that can have a huge positive impact xxx

  7. Holiday posts always make me want to jet away. I do love exploring the UK – it seems you’ve visited many UK places and abroad too! Lovely post xx.

    Rebecca |

    1. I love UK holidays too! xxx

  8. We do love our little getaway trips away! We’ve never been to the Canary Islands together but James has been been a few years back with his family.

    Your photos are stunning and we hope to visit one day together!

    Jessica & James | /

    1. Awh I hope you do! It’d be a gorgeous place to go as a couple xxx

  9. I went to Tenerife lots when I was young (I think this is a Canary Island?), but we stick to UK holidays now we have our two dogs. I did enjoy it a lot and have some really special memories of those holidays, but I’m happy with the way my holidays are now too.
    Amy xx

    1. Yes Tenerife is a Canary Island! It’s lovely! xxx

  10. I was in Gran Canaria with my boyfriend for a week las october and it was lush! Fun and sun! I loved it! I love traveling but more for short times many times a year. I am going to France for Easter and Corsica in August, which are confirmed but would love to add some other destinations! xx corinne

    1. Sounds lovely! Hope you enjoy your trips this year xxx

  11. I’ve been to tenerife before and it was absolutely beautiful! I completely agree that holidays are what you make them. Who you’re with and what you do are what make holidays the best, not whether you are staying in the most expensive hotel abroad! Some of the best holidays ive had are going away for a week in england with family or friends! Loved this post!

    Sarah | xx

    1. Exactly I totally agree deep down it really doesn’t matter where you are or what you’re doing. Xxx

  12. sunshinesarahxo says:

    Hey Jenny!
    I love travelling, I went to Australia for 22 months and it was incredible. I had so many new experiences and met people I will never forget. I’d give anything to be able to travel more and see more of this beautiful world. Xoxo

    1. Wow that’s amazing. I certainly couldn’t do Australia – far too hot for me!

  13. Ooh I love that you’ve explored so many places in the UK, I really want to up how many places I visit in my own country!
    I’m a very keen traveller but I’ve actually never been to the Canary Islands – it looks incredible though!

    Chloe ❤️

    1. I love UK holidays – always here for recommendations if you need them! xxx

  14. I love a good holiday. To go and explore new cultures and surroundings. The main place I used to go to as a kid was Majorca. If only i had the money and time to go on holiday right now.

    Rebecca Elaine x

    1. Ooooh yes I went there as a kid too! xxx

  15. MetrickVybz says:

    Reblogged this on Victor Immanuel Oloo and commented:
    Wow, interesting blog post here. Am planning on giving my opinion in another blog post

  16. Never been to any of those places but they sound wonderful.
    I met my husband back in 2002-03ish and we’ve been on a vacation or two every year since, however the destinations haven’t really changed much and as I get older and we now have a timeshare I’d like to visit some low key places here in the states that maybe you wouldn’t normally visit on vacation. I do get what you mean though like being at home, it’s nice to take some time for yourself and go see your family or do something out of the ordinary with them locally.

    Growing up we never really did huge vacations because, well money but every year we went camping and on occasion headed up to Canada. That was always fun and I miss it.

    1. Wow I’d love to go to Canada. It’s definitely on my bucket list. We didn’t go often but once a year was enough for us, it left me with some good memories x

      1. It’s fun for sure with lots to see and do, we are lucky because it’s only a couple hours drive for us! Hope you get there some day!

  17. ofbeautyand says:

    I love going on holiday – out family holiday to Norway last year was one of the most memorable weeks of my life x

    1. I’d love to go to Norway / Scandinavia xxx

  18. wow Canary Islands must have been quiet a family vacation. I would love that

    1. It’s a lovely place to go with a family xxx

      1. I want to go

  19. My favorite place in the world is Seville–I miss hopping over there for a week or long weekend.

    1. Eeek I’m not even aware of where Seville is to be honest! xxx

      1. It’s in Spain. There’s some touristy stuff but it’s very low key, peaceful and the food is to die for.

  20. I’d love to go on holiday right now, but it isn’t possible right now! I love the UK though, there are some of the best places right on your doorstep!

    Love, Amie ❤
    The Curvaceous Vegan

    1. I need a bloody break too haha the UK has some gorgeous holiday spots! xxx

  21. We’ve got to agree with you – the canaries are one of our fave places to visit. We’re going to Tenerife this year I can’t friggin wait!

    1. Lucky you! xxx

  22. I went on holiday to the Canary Islands years and years ago with my family and really loved it! It really is a beautiful place and one everyone should visit and explore. I personally love having holiday breaks in England as there are so many places to see and fall in love with. Thank you for sharing 🌸✨

    With love, Alisha Valerie x |

    1. I love a UK staycation too! I go on lots of them now and over the past few years. Last time I went abroad was 2011ish? xxx

  23. The only island I have been to is Lanzarote, last year and once 10 years before. I have to admit I didn’t enjoy it so much last year. I am not a big beach person so I got a bit bored and I wasn’t really a fan of the found (too catered for tourists). I was part of a big group though so was restricted so my experience won’t the same as some others.

    1. Ah it’s always different when you’re in a big group compared to a couple or a small family for sure. I’m not a big sun person anymore so I’m not sure how I’d manage if I went now!

  24. Lisa's Notebook says:

    You’re so right, Jenny, childhood holidays hold such precious memories and it’s those that make for a successful holiday. We used to go to Malta all the time when I was a child and while I wouldn’t want to go back there again today, it holds a special place in my heart. Alan and I used to go to Turkey a lot but more recently we’ve been experimenting with other places. Coincidentally, we’re going to Lanzarote this year and we absolutely love Dundee and Cornwall for our UK staycations. Really, we’re very lucky to have the choice but holidays are so important for spending time and making memories. Lovely post, Jenny, it really made me think! xx

    Lisa |

    1. Thanks Lisa! I went to Cornwall with my school for an activities and surfing holiday and it was absolutely brilliant and such a beautiful place 🙂 xxx

  25. Oooh I love a holiday, although the most recent one was tricky … However the most exciting was probably in Vanuatu standing on the edge of an active volcano, best snorkelling was Fiji, best shopping was Marrakech, most romantic, Paris. Most memorable, Antibes/Cannes … heaven. Lovely post, thanks for sharing ☀️☀️

    1. How comes your latest trip was tricky?! Oh no! I love Paris although I’ve never been with a partner so haven’t experienced the romance side of it!

      1. Although slightly cheesy (but on a second and final marriage I reckon it’s definitely allowed) Paris was wonderful …. masses of walking around beautiful cobbled streets, eating incessantly and feeling frightfully chic culminating in a marriage proposal! Lots of tears and snotty yes’s later (and champagne) …. yup, romantic it certainly was! Latest holiday was skiing, which was more tears, but not in a happy way, and frustration as anxiety hit me like a brick! I’m now working on that! 😬

      2. Oh no! I’ve been skiing and loved it but I wasn’t brilliant and definitely had a few anxiety inducing moments as well!

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