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Subtle ways I’m actively changing my life

2018 has been the year of change for me. Not big changes; I haven’t moved house, got a new job or traveled the world but it’s been the year of subtle changes which ultimately, have changed my outlook and in ways… my life. You don’t need a grand gesture in order to change your life – despite what “gurus” may tell you. Traveling the world isn’t feasible for everyone. Moving to another location isn’t as straight and to the point as some people say it is. Circumstances, mental health, physical health, money and a whole variety of other factors can stop us from making these big changes we’re so often told we need to make in order to change our lives. But it’s bollocks. 

Changing your life isn’t easy and it certainly isn’t quick. I’m 6 months into the year now (as is everyone else, obviously) and I’m far from where I want to be; mentally, physically, financially and spiritually. But if you don’t start at least trying to change, you’re never going to, right? And it doesn’t matter how slow you go, as long as you don’t stop (look at me getting all wise!) Today I want to share with you some small, subtle ways I’m beginning to change my mind, my outlook and my life! Yay!


Yoga is the most obvious one because I never stop bloody talking about it! Yoga has made me enjoy exercise again, after years of not doing any due to my anxiety. It gives me something to wake up and look forward to every single day and it literally – literally – supports me in ways I never knew it could. It’s taught me how to breath like, actually breathe. It’s given me faith in my own body again but also taught me that it’s important to do what feels good – not just what is perceived to be good from the outside world. I’m working towards getting stronger, fitter and more aware of my own body and what it needs not just getting toned and trim.


This is one that I know will be greeted with some eye-rolls and I totally respect that not everyone believes in things like this and that’s totally cool. But I’ve started to learn about manifestation and what it entails and I genuinely believe it’s having an impact on my life. Manifestation basically is the process of manifesting your ideals. Imagining yourself in the circumstance you want to be in and considering it already done. Believing that you’ve already got that promotion, for example. And believing it so bad that in your minds eye, you already have it. The idea is that these intense beliefs are projected out into the universe and then you’ll be on the right track to succeed.

Projecting what I need

This ties in to the point I just made but I’ve really focused on thinking about and feeling what I need and what’s perhaps not going quite as well as I hope it would in that particular moment. An example of this was when, in  March, I had a dreadful month financially. I thought about it constantly, I worked hard to try and change it (to no avail) and I spoke about the problem I was in  both internally and on social media. By April, I had the best ever financial month since becoming self employed. I believe it’s both hard-work and something else… But there’s gotta be something in that.

Doing what I need 

Different to the above point but this year, I’ve really started to work on my excessive need to be productive 24/7 and never giving myself down time. I would work frantically from the second I woke up until the second I went to sleep, scheduling posts months in advance, thinking up new projects that I certainly didn’t have time to do and just wearing myself out from it all. Whilst I still work exceptionally hard on my work, my blogging and almost every area of my life, I’ve started ensuring that I do what I feel like I need to do and not feel guilty from it. If that means not working one day because my mental health is bad, fine. Having a nap mid-afternoon? Cool. Ordering a Domino’s even though yesterday I had a Chinese? Whatever, it was yummy!

Expanding my horizons

Again, I don’t mean by extravagant things like moving abroad or sky-diving. There’s so many other ways to expand your horizons, to deepen your knowledge and to become a more well-rounded person. I’ve started reading more non-fiction books and watching more foreign TV shows and films. Educating myself on different topics and just taking a damn interest in things. There’s certainly something to be said for taking an interest in the world around you. I’ve really tried to do that this year and although there’s plenty more I could be doing, I’ve definitely made a promising start!

I’m aware some of these points won’t be for everyone, depending on your personal beliefs and that’s absolutely fine! But I hope you liked this post and maybe gained something from it. I’d love to hear how your year is going so far and whether you’ve made any positive changes!


Jenny in Neverland

Twenty-something lifestyle blogger from Essex. Book lover, Slytherin, organisational wizard and enjoys Motorsport, Disney and Yoga.


  1. […] so, my mindset really has changed (probably due to doing so much Yoga, meditation and leaning about manifestation which again, I know isn’t for everyone) and I know now that we need to believe in ourselves, […]

  2. Gialately says:

    This is what I’ve been doing & life has never been better.

    1. So glad to hear that! 🙂

  3. I am learning how important self-care is. Thank you for your words.

    1. You’re welcome 🙂

  4. It not easy to change habits of a lifetime.
    I think the secret is to attempt the change in small and regular doses.

    1. That’s a very good piece of advice 🙂

  5. Yoga is something I’ve heard can help a lot of people, but I don’t know about doing it myself as I’m not very flexible.

    Amy |

    1. You absolutely 100% do NOT need to be flexible in order to do Yoga. It’s one of the biggest misconceptions about it.

  6. Beautiful write-up!!

  7. 2018 has been a year of change for me too. I started looking for new opportunities, studied more carefully, read more books and exercised. I also started writing blog posts of my own.

    Basically I’ve invited more challenges to my life, and I’m really enjoying myself this year.

    1. I’m so glad to hear that! 🙂

  8. I love this post! It’s made me feel so positive and determined to really change my own fortunes. I love the concept of manifesting and projection – I totally agree that both hard work and good intentions can make all the difference. I need to get back to a positive place as the last couple of months have been actually good for me (for once!) and I’d love to carry that forward. Thanks for sharing your tips!
    Beth x

    1. Awh I’m so glad to hear that, I hope you can carry the positivity forward into the rest of the year 🙂 xxx

  9. I really want to try yoga, as I’ve heard such good things about it! I might give it a go at home with a YouTube video and see how I get on.

    1. You totally should it’s life changing xxx

  10. I really want to do Yoga again. I used to go years ago and I absolutely loved it. It is definitely something I should try again!

    1. You totally should xxx

  11. I’m sure I say this every time I read a post where you mention it, but I need to do more yoga haha.
    Cora |

    1. Haha it’s likely! 😂 Check out my Yoga With Adriene recommendation! cxxx

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