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Things To Look Out For in the Blogging World

This big ol’ blogging world can be a tough one to navigate at times. Even with 6 years (6 YEARS CAN YOU ADAM AND EVE IT?!) of experience under my belt; writing little book reviews as a side hobby at first, owning a business which required working with a lot of bloggers, then blogging as my job, I still find myself staring at my screen going “eh?” at times.

It can be seriously hard to keep up with the trends, the latest new app, the latest disclosure guidelines (don’t start) all the while maintaining your blog, trying to write relevant blog content and keep up to date with the blogging community. How any of us do it, I’ll never know.

Yes, blogging can be a lot of hard work but I love it. I love (almost) every aspect of it (aside from taking photos – bane of my LIFE) but you definitely do have to be vigilant, as you do in most aspects of life. Because the blogging world isn’t all sunshine and rainbows.

People playing the follow/un-follow game

I know, it’s old and it’s boring now but people are still doing it. Imagine THAT being your life. We all want to grow our social media following but there’s ways to do it. And continuously following and un-following people isn’t it. I keep on top of this by using a few free apps, where you can see who’s un-followed you and if I notice the same person cropping up over and over again, they get an instant block. I ain’t got no time for that.


Plagiarism can be a huge problem if it happens to you – thankfully I’ve never experienced it but I’m well aware of bloggers I follow who have spoken up about it on Twitter, about how certain individuals are stealing their content word for word and posting it on their own blogs or taking their Instagram photos and re-posting them on their accounts. It’s an incredibly petty thing to do and often, the culprits have rather lame excuses like, “I just wanted to create a blog but didn’t know where to start!” *eye roll*

Dodgy PR’s, brands & ‘business opportunities’

I’m sure most of us could go on huge rants about this one but I’ll keep it short for the sake of this post. Working with brands and building a relationship with PR agencies and individuals within those agencies is brilliant but if you work with brands regularly, you need to watch out for the wrong’uns. For example, offering you money off of their products in exchange for a review is not an opportunity. It’s a joke. Nor is being asked to pay for postage or being asked to send the product back afterwards (yes, I was actually asked that once!)

Not being paid

Unfortunately I did experience this last year – twice. Thankfully however, it wasn’t anything highly substantial like some bloggers have seen but it still happened. It was still annoying. I worked on two blog posts which I never, ever saw payment for despite emailing the agency multiple times and even ringing one of them on one occasion. The man on the phone was incredibly unhelpful and sounded like he found the situation almost humorous! But just be aware and only work with people you trust.

Drama Llamas

In a community this big, you’re always going to meet some Drama Llamas. Individuals who seek out things to negatively comment on, have nothing nice to say to anyone and those who will truly make a mountain out of a mole hill and cause an uproar when one wasn’t needed. All I can suggest, is stay away from them. Block, mute and don’t engage.

Have you ever experienced anything like this? Anything else to add about the “darker” side of blogging? I’d love to hear your experiences about anything mentioned above!


Jenny in Neverland

Twenty-something lifestyle blogger from Essex. Book lover, Slytherin, organisational wizard and enjoys Motorsport, Disney and Yoga.


  1. I love this blog post so much darling! Thank you for being so honest and open, and sharing such important views about the darker side of blogging and the blogging community. 💜

    With love, Alisha Valerie x |

    1. Thank you 😌😌

  2. I like this idea for a blog post! I have started to notice the whole follow/unfollow ordeal on Insta. BUT WHY?! Like I just don’t understand why people bother with that. Anyway, these are great points and definitely gave me things to think about and keep a look out for. Thanks for sharing!

    xx, Des |

    1. I have no idea why haha! It’s utterly pointless 😂😂

    2. Great blog post hun. 🙂

      I know what you mean about those drama llamas (awesome name for them by the way): too much effort to waste on people who only seek to spread more hatred in the world.

      Wishing you a wonderful upcoming weekend, Dax. xoxo

  3. Don’t forget to mention the bloggers who pretend to be your friend but stab you in the back – lots of them around too! x

    1. Ugh! Totally! 🙄🙄

  4. The follow game is the worst. Especially on Instagram. Makes me wonder why I bother posting there.

    1. I wouldn’t let it deter you. It has nothing on you that these people waste their time doing it.

  5. I always get the “have 10% off our product so you can write a 800 word review” xx

    1. Ugh typical 🙄🙄

  6. As wonderful as the blogging community is there’s a few downsides, I hate when people working with bloggers intially offer payment if you write for them and then tell you that they don’t have the budget for it this month but if you do it anyway then maybe there’s an opportunity for paid content in the future.

    1. Oh I HATE that! It’s awful and I hope most people don’t go for it too 🤦‍♀️

  7. My recent favourite I was offered the other day ‘ post our article on your blog & in return, we’ll send it out on our email list & promote to our social media’ …and just how does that benefit me in any way?! Honestly, sometimes I think that they think bloggers don’t have a brain cell between them!

    I can’t abide the drama llamas either, I stay well clear. I left the playground behind me YEARS ago.

    It sounds harsh but I don’t really trust many bloggers at all. During my first year of blogging, a blogger I thought to be a friend suddenly stopped talking to me & was generally being really off with me, all because I declined an offer to help her with a post about Kbeauty because, at the time, I wasn’t very well at all due to chronic illnesses, which she knew. In fact, she didn’t even respond to my email explaining why and how sorry I was. I just chalked it up to experience and moved on but it did make me VERY wary of bloggers in general. I hate that she tainted it for me.

    Sarah 🌺 || Boxnip

    1. I think you’ll get people like that in all walks of life tbh. I’ve had odd experiences with bloggers too but at the end of the day, they’re online, I don’t know them IRL and shit happens so I don’t let it get to me.

      That “opportunity” sounds familiar – I’ve had plenty like that and I’m like ?!?!? It’s ridiculous! 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

  8. omg drama llamas! I love that term lol

    Follow-Unfollow has gotten so old! And I’m getting so sick of sketchy PR agencies & “offers”.

    But overall I love blogging so I won’t let it get me down.

    1. Haha glad to hear it 😌

  9. I agree these are all things to look out for! A while back a blog took one of my posts & kept my pictures but translated the text & posted it as theirs..I contacted them to remove the post to no avail then I reported it. I haven’t checked on the post since then but I would like to think it got removed. I don’t understand why someone would start a blog just to copy posts other people wrote!

    1. Ugh I’m sorry to hear that happened to you! Some people just… I have no words 😂🤦‍♀️

  10. I love how you wrote about a serious topic in a light hearted way as it makes it seem a little less daunting. I haven’t had much experience with sponsorships although I’ve had a few approach me wanting me to advertise their products and in return offer me 30% off their products. Its atrocious!

    1. Ugh those bloody “opportunities” when will they stop! 🤦‍♀️ Thanks cutie xxx

  11. thanks for this tips.. I am new to blogging and looking forward to grow.. I really don’t care about the unfollow/follow game. I’m just here to write and share my stories. But what I’m really worried about is stealing my hard work and my product. This is for sure will make me go crazy!. Again Thanks for the tips and I like your stories!.

    1. I hope it never happens to you!

  12. Ugh. I’m just starting out in this blog eat blog world and hope I don’t have to deal with any of that. I’m sorry you had to.

    1. I hope you don’t too! These things happen unfortunately 😔

      1. Thank you! Let’s just keep blogging along with not a care in the world 😉

  13. Hey girl! Really enjoyed this read, and btw I love love love the Minnie journal.
    I have to say my biggest pet hate is the follow/unfollow game , it is seriously frustrating. I see it on my blog insta and on my personal account too and I just think how can these people be bothered! Anyway, just glad to see others see the same problems haha x

    1. Haha I agree literally how can you be bothered going through all that effort for everyone to hate you for it anyway? 😂😂

  14. Nodding along to these. This world is definitely not short of drama.

    1. It really isn’t 😂

  15. I’ve only just started blogging and didnt really know this side existed!

    1. Well now you do! 😌

  16. Sanyukta Thakare says:

    I haven’t experienced anything yet. I am new and nervous about being part of this community. Hopefully good things will come too!

    1. Good things will always outweigh the bad! 😌

  17. poutineandprada says:

    I can’t believe it when people copy other’s content. Seems to defeat the purpose of blogging!

    1. It totally does. I don’t get it either? 🤦‍♀️

  18. Okay, so the following and then unfollowing! It still irritates me 🤦🏽‍♀️

    1. It irritates us all 😂😂

  19. Really helpful post thank you x

    1. You’re welcome! 😌

  20. I found this post super helpful, and I’ll probably come back to this post again! Thank you for that ☺️

    1. You’re welcome 😌

  21. An interesting read Jenny. When I decided to ‘dabble’ with blogging, I would not have gone near it if I’d read, or understood, any of what you said. I’m an old fart who just wanted to try her hand at writing down her thoughts on a public forum, instead of just in her private journals. KISS is my preferred method in life these days, and I really can’t be bothered with all the other crap you’ve mentioned. My blog obviously won’t ever go very far, but that wasn’t really my purpose. People said you could make money on it, but it seems just as stressful as starting up a home business of any sort.
    What has surprised me is that I’d meet so many amazing people, and enjoy reading their regular posts, and I’d then have no time left in my day to write anything myself, or even vacuum! That’s a bugger 🤔. Throw in a couple of day jobs and my life is pretty full 😊

    1. I think things like this happen whatever you do and whatever you embark on really. Nothing has no faults.

      Making a business from your blog isn’t easy, I know, I’ve done it! You’ve gotta be really passionate about it.

  22. I have only experienced the follow/unfollow game and use a app for the same reasons. I notice some add and delete then also will block. The more I have got into blogging I have forgotten the need for numbers as much as quality over quantity is much more preferable x

    1. Quality over quantity is definitely key. I still like seeing the numbers rise though – especially if blogging is your job.

  23. It’s such a shame that some people resort to buying followers/playing the follow unfollow game. It’s more frustrating when people grow their followings unorganically but seem to get all the great opportunities. I’m hoping that more and more brands will start to see through this and work with genuine content creators rather than game players! I always try to stay out of the drama but admittedly, it’s so difficult sometimes as I can get so frustrated with how ignorant and spiteful people can be to each other. I just try to keep myself zipped and get on with my own blog, and try not to worry about what others are doing.

    Alice x

    1. Oh I totally agree it’s INFURIATING seeing these people get opportunities which would have been much more worthy of someone else.

  24. I really enjoyed reading this! I’m sure a lot of bloggers starting out would have found this very insightful. I’ve been blogging for just over 2 years now and I’ve definitely experienced a couple of these things. Luckily, the good outweighs the bad but there’s no denying how annoying/frustrating these situations can be.

    1. The good definitely does outweigh the bad, I agree 😌 you’ll get jerks wherever you go – just gotta try and not let it get to you!

  25. helloaycan says:

    I feel like I’ve been pretty good keeping out of all the drama luckily. But, those strange blogging “opportunities” when they offer you money off the product to review is the worst thing ever. If I get offered opportunities that aren’t right for me, I’ll email and say not for me, but that kind! I wouldn’t even waste my time on that.

    I offer people help with the coding side of their blog (html, css etc), which I’m happy to do, but sometimes people take complete advance of me and will only talk to me when they need help, which sucks big time!

    Aycan //

    1. Ugh that does suck! You’ll always get people like that though, sadly.

      And I can’t believe people think that those “opportunities” are worth it and actually go ahead with it! I mean it’s probably down to inexperience.

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