Self care should be a part of all of our lives and daily routines but we have to remember that self care looks different for everyone. Whilst someone might consider a relaxing bubble bath with candles and a book a valid form of self care, someone else would rather go for a run or head to the gym for a banging workout. Which is also valid.

Basic self care is just as important as the big things too, for example, attending your cervical screenings when you’re invited (which I did for the first time two years ago, yes it was un-comfy but having that peace of mind that I’ve taken care of myself outweighed that massively) and any other procedures we might need in order to maintain our self care. I’ve always had problems with my ears, ever since I was a kid, so attending an ear clinic in London would be beneficial to me in that regard.

Drinking enough water

I automatically started doing this as soon as my anxiety started. Water calmed me, I felt less anxious when I had a bottle of water with me or was holding a bottle in my hands. Sounds weird but water is calming yo and it took an anxiety diagnosis for me to really realise that. Sipping water made me feel better when I was anxious as heck and still does. But ultimately, that’s resulted in me just naturally drinking a shed load of water! So I’m never dehydrated and I always drink enough throughout the day, which is super important for mental and physical health.

Keeping a sort-of journal

At the beginning of this year, I made a feeble attempt at creating a bullet journal. I quickly realised that I wasn’t creative enough, nor did I have the patience of a Saint to do all the “fussy” stuff that bullet journal’s require. So although it’s basically now just a glorified notebook, I still love it and I use it to document a bunch of stuff, including my blogging schedule (which is colour coded depending on the topic – I’m aware I sound like Monica Gellar but colour co-ordination makes me very happy), what films I’ve watched, what books I’ve read and a monthly “happy things” page, where I make a note of any nice moments which has happened that month.

Wake up earlier

I’ve gradually learnt the benefits of waking up earlier and now, I cannot bare to sleep in! It makes me feel physically awful and mentally, my gosh, it turns me into a zombie. I hate feeling like I’ve wasted the day to the point where because I’ve always wasted half of it, I might as well waste the other half. So I don’t end up doing anything. We stayed at my boyfriend’s parents house a few months ago and I accidentally slept in until gone midday and I genuinely spent the rest of the day more or less staring at the ceiling. It was awful. Waking up earlier makes me feel good, so I’ve made an effort to ensure that happens. Self care = done.

Do Yoga every day

I mean, I can’t do Yoga every single day of my life but I aim to do it every day I realistically can, when there’s not a day trip, an illness or anything else in the way. I started Yoga when my anxiety started because I heard it helped. I bought some DVD’s and enjoyed them for a while but I slowly fell out of love with it, until I found Yoga With Adriene on YouTube and she completely and totally made me fall in love with Yoga, with being kind to my body, doing what feels right for my body and getting back into exercise. Every day I’ll do a Yoga practice which feels right for me that day. If I’m feeling a bit tired and run down, I’ll do a gentle practice. If I had a lot of energy, I’ll do a higher intensity practice and break a bit of a sweat. I think Yoga has been my main form of self care over the last few years because I really use it to my benefit.

Watch a series

I mean, not an entire series in a day but I always make time every day to watch at least one episode of a series I’m currently watching, on my own. My boyfriend and I always have a series on the go that we watch together but I also like to have one on the go by myself, one that I can spend my quality down-time with myself watching. At the moment it’s a re-watch of Friends! Which is a great choice when I need to switch off and just relax with a comforting, homey show.

How have you incorporated self care into your daily life? Do you carve out time for it or has it naturally fallen into your daily routine?



  1. It just naturally fits in at this point. Sometimes it’s talking with a friend, sometimes it’s watching some YouTube videos I like or listening to music I like, sometimes it’s writing (honestly).

  2. I’m trying to get into yoga at the moment. I usually just do workouts which work for me, but they’re not massively calming and I feel that yoga can help to calm down in the evening and de-stress x

  3. I try to spend a little time outdoors each day. Even if the weather is not brilliant, the fresh air blows away my cobwebs. Being in natural light and hearing sounds like birds singing or leaves fluttering is good for my soul.

  4. I’ve been looking into self-care as it is an area i seem to have neglected over the years. I tried yoga but wasn’t feeling it until i tried one of Adrienes videos, which i enjoyed….. i’ve never heard of a bullet Journal could you explain what that is? 🙂

  5. I actually do a lot of the same things that you do for my self-care! I’m working on incorporating yoga into my daily routine and I have started using a bullet journal (although, like you, I’m not artistic or patient enough to make it insanely pretty). I fill mine with graphs and colors and it’s pretty enough for me 🙂

  6. My self-care involves taking a pause and walking while contemplating about life. It relaxes me. Also, I started drinking tons of water too! I agree that it really makes a difference.

  7. These are excellent tips, as always! For me, I’ve started incorporating an hour in the mornings and evenings to self care. I usually use it to do a full skincare routine, as it helps me feel so much more human (and also cause I’m turning 30 next year haha!) Looking after yourself is so important, and there are so many different ways to do it!
    Beth x

  8. Why not turning off our phone for a couple of hours so you don’t get bumbarded with notifications? That’s one form of self care and this is something I do but not often. I think taking a break from your phone is excellent for taking care of yourself. Your friends on the other side can wait, and they’re probably busy too. It’s good for your mental health to stay away from social media during the day if you don’t work.

  9. self care is so imporant and always over looked! even something simple as making your bed every day can have such a huge impact on a day

  10. Self-care is so important & I think people can forget that just incorporating small things into their day can really help.

  11. I love these “small” things that you do to incorporate self care into your everyday life! I’m still working on the ‘drink more water’ part, but so far I’ve started getting up earlier and it really does help. I’m trying out bullet journals, too, but mine aren’t quite so decorative as the ones I see on pinterest. Still, it does help keep me in check!

  12. this is like a reminder to me, that I should really start making time for self care more often.thankyou for this!great post, and I agree with the journaling!

  13. I’m also not into all the “fussy” stuff in a bullet journal. But I started an art journal this month and so far, I’m doing really well! I tried to keep it simple with only three parts in it instead of all those spreads a bullet journal typically have. I’m also aiming to drink more water 😊 Awesome post!

    Kate | All The Trinkets

  14. I agree with your statement about self care 200%!!!!!!!! It is so important to incorporate this however we can, whether we’re having alone time or doing the things we live (maybe both). Water is so important, being dehydrated is no joke and your skin depends on it! I am with you about waking up earlier. I do it so much that I am used to it, even during the weekends. Yoga is a great way to practice self-care. Keep it up!

    Nancy ♥

  15. These are excellent self-care methods! I always wanted to start a journal but found it to be so daunting what with all of this bullet journaling and such. I think I will try again though because it can be quite stress relieving!

  16. Such a lovely post Jenny and great suggestions 💖. It’s fantastic you found something to help with anxiety that’s so healthy at the same time. I also try and keep a bottle of water next to me and it reminds me to sip it often. Yay for yoga. I love watching a series to relax and switch off too. At the moment, Shaun & I are watching all the Coach Trip’s on catch up, it’s so fun 😄 xx

    Bexa |

  17. As I have been concentrating on my writing so much recently I found my reading was suffering. I then noticed so was my mental health. Since carving out at least an hour at the end of everyday to read I have started feeling better again.

    I love the tip about water as well I could certainly do with drinking more. Thanks for the article.

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